What the hell!!
I am conflicted. Do I say something to this geriatric? I could give her the benefit of the doubt, she is so old that she doesn't see me. Do I school her in Etiquette 101? But she was obviously alive during the 'good old days' when ladies wore white gloves and men still opened car doors. Do I let it go because she is knocking on deaths door? At that age, maybe she just does not want to waste precious time standing in line?
Here is what I did. I used what I have. I have youth, vigor, strength, speed, agility and the will to check this rude octogenarian. When the cashier was done with the customer ahead, I engaged my cat-like reflexes and sprang to the counter ahead of her. I left her in my dust to ponder how this whipper-snapper got there before she did.
I could have been gracious and waved her ahead, but she was rude on several levels.
- Failure to acknowledge me. Eye contact. Wink. Blow a bloody kiss.
- Failure to kindly ask that I allow her ahead of me. I would have done it. Really.
- Failure to take the time that we stood there to eventually say something/anything.
Class and courtesy does not come with age or by osmosis. It is a learned behavior. Rude kids become rude teens. Rude teens become rude adults. Rude adults become rude old people. I don't let kids get away with being rude, so no one else gets a pass either.
I pray that when I am old, and forget the names of the Kardashians, I don't forget my manners.
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