Sunday, March 9, 2014

Manners trumps Etiquette

Etiquette : The customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession or group. 
Source:http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/etiquette

Etiquette is a tool to demonstrate that you have self respect as well as respect for others. But, some people wield that knowledge as a sword to make themselves feel like they're 'better than' those who are not exposed to etiquette training. 

Manners: A person’s outward bearing or way of behaving toward others.
Source: http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/manner?q=manners

Good manners is a result of kindness, respect and consideration for each person we meet. It doesn't require quoting Emily Post and Amy Vanderbilt, or writing into Dear Abby. The one and only rule to know is, 'do to others as you would want them to do to you' 

Spouting the rules of etiquette at the expense of someone else's feelings magnifies your own insecurity, and makes you no fun to be around. 

Exercise etiquette because you know better: show manners because you are better.

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